STEPS FOR WOMEN TO TAKE TO SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE
FIRST OF ALL.....BIND AND CAST OUT THE LYING SPIRIT (ON MY APOSTLE GRACE PAGE) THAT IS LYING TO YOU, THAT YOU DON'T LOVE YOUR HUSBAND ANYMORE, THAT YOU NEED TO HAVE AN AFFAIR WITH THE GUY WHO LOOKS SO APPEALING!
THEN BIND & CAST OUT THE SPIRIT OF LUST, WHOREDOMS & ASMODEUS...THE MARRIAGE BREAKER OUT OF YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND! (ALSO ON MY MINISTRY PAGE ON FACEBOOK......APOSTLE GRACE)
WHETHER YOU FEEL LIKE IT OR NOT, TELL YOUR HUSBAND YOU LOVE HIM......DAILY........CATER TO HIM, CALL HIM AT WORK......DO FRIDAY NIGHT MEALS JUST FOR HIM, MAKE HIM HIS FAVORITE MEALS...SHIP THE KIDS OUT......GET A BABYSITTER & GO OUT....WHATEVER NIGHT YOU CHOOSE....SPEND TIME TOGETHER...WORKING ON HAVING FUN....COURTING AS IT WERE AGAIN! YOUR MARRIAGE SHOULD NOT BE BASED ON FEELINGS, WHETHER YOU FEEL THE LOVE OR NOT....MARRIAGE IS A COVENANT BETWEEN TWO PEOPLE, FEELING ARE BESIDES THE POINT! THEY'LL FLUCTUATE OVER THE YEARS. YOU MUST PERSEVERE & NOT GIVE UP! THAT'S WHAT HaSatan WANTS YOU TO DO! LOVE IS A COMMAND.....WE ARE TO LOVE ONE ANOTHER WHETHER WE FEEL LIKE IT OR NOT....SHOW LOVE IN ANY WAY YOU CAN!
IN MY 10TH YEAR OF MARRIAGE, I HAD NO FEELINGS FOR MY HUSBAND AT ALL! YAH TOLD ME IF I WOULD JUST TELL HIM I LOVED HIM WHETHER I FELT LIKE IT OR NOT, HE WOULD BRING ALONG THE FEELINGS LATER & HE DID! IT TOOK ABOUT A MONTH AND A HALF OF ME SHOWING LOVE TO MY HUSBAND, SEDUCING HIM TO THE LOVE BED ETC, BEFORE I FELT ANYTHING.
THEN ONE DAY THE FEELINGS CAME BACK....WOWOW....WAS I EXCITED! I CRIED BEFORE THE L-RD, THANKING HIM FOR BRINGING THEM BACK! THEY THEN BEGAN TO GROW EACH DAY MORE & MORE. WITHIN THE NEXT YEAR I COULD HARDLY STAND IT. AFTER 3 YRS.......I COULD NOT BELIEVE HOW MUCH I LOVED HIM & THOUGHT IT WAS IMPOSSIBLE TO LOVE HIM ANYMORE! IT CHANGED OUR MARRIAGE! (ALSO, BIND AND CAST OUT THE SPIRIT OF FRIGIDITY, IF YOU ARE DEAD TO YOUR FEELINGS IN BED! THAT SPIRIT WILL COME & TRY AND ROB YOU OF YOUR SEX LIFE!)
NEXT, STOP NAGGING YOUR HUSBAND, INSTEAD TELL HIM THINGS YOU APPRECIATES ABOUT HIM.....BUILD UP HIS EGO! MEN THRIVE & SURVIVE ON IT! THAT IS HOW YAH HAS MADE THEM. GIVE HIM THE LEADERSHIP IN DIRECTING THE FAMILY IN BIBLE TIMES...PRAYER TIMES! ASK HIM TO DO IT!
STOP PLAYING HOLY SPIRIT...TRYING TO DIRECT HIS LIFE! YOUR RESPONSIBILITY IS TO PRAY FOR HIM & LIFT HIM UP NOT DRAG HIM DOWN! YOU PRAY TO THE L-RD & ASK HIM TO DIRECT YOUR HUSBAND BY HIS HOLY SPIRIT! TAKE YOUR HANDS OFF OF HIM! HE IS DIRECTLY UNDER THE AUTHORITY & DIRECTION OF YHVH. HE WILL GET HIS DIRECTIONS FROM HIM...NOT YOU! THEN YOU ARE UNDER YOUR HUSBAND. HE IS YOUR PROTECTION, YOUR COVERING SO TO SPEAK, YOUR UMBRELLA TO KEEP THE ENEMY AT BAY! THE WIFE IS TO SUBMIT TO HER HUSBAND....IN OTHER WORDS....ADJUST IF THEIR IS A DIFFERENCE IN OPINION, LETTING THE HUSBAND BE THE HEAD AND MAKE THE FINAL DECISION. IF HE ERRORS, YAH WILL CORRECT HIM AND BELIEVE YOU ME, HE WILL NEVER DO THAT AGAIN, THAT WHICH WAS ERROR!
Eph.5:22-29 says,
“Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church and he is the savior of the body. Therefore as the church is subject to Christ, so also let the wives be to their own husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for her that he might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word, that he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that she should be holy and without blemish. So husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loves his wife loves himself. For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, even as the Lord does the church because we are members of his body.”
LAST STEP....STOP TELLING YOUR GIRLFRIENDS HOW MUCH YOU DISLIKE HIM, HOW MUCH YOU DISAPPROVE OF HIS ACTIONS! INSTEAD...RAVE ABOUT HIM. TELL THEM HOW WONDERFUL HE IS! BRAG ABOUT HIM EVEN IF YOU DON'T FEEL LIKE IT! SHOW HIM RESPECT & HONOR AT ALL TIMES, EVEN IF YOU THINK HE'S A JERK! BLESS HIM & NOT CURSE HIM!
DON'T GIVE HaSatan ANY FOOTHOLD...NOT A SPECK, THEN WATCH YOUR MARRIAGE TURN AROUND! PRAY TOGETHER & STAY TOGETHER! HAVE COMMUNION TOGETHER! ENJOY & BE BLESSED!
BLESS YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND.......DR. APOSTLE GRACE
