James 1 : 2-4
MY BROTHERS, regard as complete joy the various trials to which you may be exposed, knowing that the trial of your FAITH produces PATIENCE. But it is necessary that the PATIENCE accomplishes its work PERFECTLY, so that you are PERFECT and accomplished, WITHOUT FAILING IN ANYTHING.
-m4 It's an individual path
Truth can only be experienced. It cannot be described or explained.
It's not up to you to change your brother, just to accept him as he is.
[...] Any attempt on your part to correct a brother means that you believe that the
correction by you is possible, and it can only be the arrogance of the ego.
Correction is from God, Who does not know arrogance.
T-9.III.64, 78-9
Find your inner teacher, the only One who can remind you of who you really are. Do not fear to not knowing