FOR THOSE LIVING IN AN ABUSIVE SITUATION.....STAY OR GO? >>
THIS IS A TOUGH GREY AREA FOR IN THE BIBLE, YAHWEH HATES DIVORCE AND SAYS WE ARE NOT TO DIVORCE EXCEPT FOR UNFAITHFULNESS OR DEATH BUT HE ALSO HATES ABUSE OF ANY KIND! IF A WOMAN IS BEING ABUSED NIGHT IN AND NIGHT OUT, VERBALLY AND PHYSICALLY, HE WOULD NOT WANT HER TO STAY IN THAT SITUATION.
YOU HAVE ALL THE RIGHT IN THE WORLD TO LEAVE AND IN FACT YOU SHOULD!! THERE IS NO WAY THAT YOU SHOULD STAY! YAH WOULD NOT HAVE YOU THERE LIVING IN AN UNHEALTHY, ABUSIVE SITUATION!! THE WORD OF YAH SAYS: 1 Corinthians 7:15 But if the unbeliever leaves, let him do so. A believing man or woman is not bound in such circumstances; God has called us to live in peace.
IF THERE IS NO PEACE AND HE IS ALLOWED TO CONTINUE ON VERBALLY AND PHYSICALLY ABUSING HER, HE IS THE ONE WHO IS OUT OF ORDER AND IN FACT IS ABUSING HER BODY WHICH IS THE TEMPLE OF THE HOLY SPIRIT! SHE IS NOT BOUND TO STAY, AS THE SCRIPTURE STATES IN 1 CORINTHIANS! WHAT DOES THE WORD OF YAH SAY ABOUT ALL OF THIS?
I KNOW BECAUSE I ONCE LIVED WITH A MAN....PLATONIC RELATIONSHIP, IN L.A. BECAUSE I HAD NO OTHER PLACE TO GO BUT HE WAS AN ALCOHOLIC. I FOUND OUT HOW CRUEL THOSE DEMONS OF ALCOHOL WERE!!! THEY RUIN ALL RELATIONSHIPS! THEY COME TO ROB, STEAL AND DESTROY AND ANY WOMAN IN THEIR PATH, THEY WILL TRY AND DEVOUR YOU WITH HATRED, ANGER, RAGE AND SPIRITS OF STRIFE! THEY HATE EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU! THOSE DEMONS IN THEM CAN NOT STAND CHRIST IN YOU! THEY WILL PICK ON YOU, GET AFTER YOU FOR NO REASON AT ALL AND MAKE A MOUNTAIN OUT OF A MOLE HILL! THEY ARE OUT TO KILL YOU WITHOUT A DOUBT!
THE ONLY ANSWER IS TO GET OUT OF THAT CURSED SITUATION AND FIGHT THOSE DEMONS FROM THE OUTSIDE IN. IF YOU TRULY CARE FOR AND LOVE THAT PERSON, THEN USE THE "STRONGMAN DELIVERANCE" IN MY NOTES AND FIGHT, FIGHT, FIGHT ON THEIR BEHALF BUT DO NOT STAY IN IT AND EXPECT THEM TO JUST GO AWAY! G-D ALSO CAN NOT BLESS YOU BECAUSE YOU ARE LIVING UNDER A CURSE! HE CAN NOT BLESS A CURSED THING! IF G-D DID NOT JOIN YOU TOGETHER IN THE FIRST PLACE, HE DID NOT SANCTION IT, SO COME OUT! THE WEDDING VOWS SAY: "WHO GOD HAS JOINED TOGETHER, LET NO MAN PUT ASUNDER" BUT IF G-D DID NOT SANCTION IT IN THE FIRST PLACE..GET OUT!
SO COME OUT IN JESUS NAME!!! DO WHATEVER YOU HAVE TO, TO GET OUT! IF YOU HAVE NO ONE TO TURN TO, NO FAMILY OR FRIENDS TO TAKE YOU IN, THEN GO TO THE NEAREST SHELTER FOR BATTERED WOMAN! IF YOU HAVE CHILDREN, THERE ARE SHELTERS THAT YOU CAN GO TO, ONES WHERE YOU MUST TELL THEM YOUR LIFE IS IN DANGER AND YOU HAVE NO ONE TO HELP YOU. THEY WILL HIDE YOU AND KEEP YOU SAFE. EXPLAIN YOUR SITUATION AND THEY WILL CARE FOR YOU, PROTECT YOU AND HELP YOU GET RE-ESTABLISHED!
I KNOW THIS BECAUSE I HAD TO DO IT! I FLED MANY TIMES INTO THE NIGHT WITH ONLY MY PURSE AND PERSONAL BELONGINGS IN IT, MY COMPUTER AND CELL PHONE! I EVEN SLEPT OUTSIDE IN THE BUSHES MANY NIGHTS, BEHIND THE MALL, BY THE GARBAGE BIN, BECAUSE I HAD NO PLACE TO GO BUT AT LEAST I WAS SAFE! YESHUA WAS WITH ME AND MY POSSE OF ANGELS THE WHOLE TIME! I WAS NOT ALONE! BEATEN, TORN AND TRAUMATIZED YES, BUT I WAS SAFE AND OUT OF HARM’S WAY! IF I COULD DO IT, I KNOW YOU CAN TOO!
I, IN THE END, FLED ON THE AMTRAK TRAIN BACK TO CANADA WHEN IT BECAME POSSIBLE AND LIVED IN TWO DIFFERENT SHELTERS, WHERE G-D HELPED ME GET BACK ON TRACK. THE LAST SHELTER I WENT TO, HELPED ME GET ON WELFARE, FIND A CUTE LITTLE SUITE AND EVEN HELPED ME GET SOME MUCH NEEDED USED FURNITURE FROM A CHURCH, NAMED THE "AMAZING GRACE CHURCH", NONE THE LESS! THEY EVEN GAVE ME MONTHLY FINANCIAL ASSISTANCE FOR WHICH I AM TRULY GRATEFUL! THEY NOT ONLY VEERED ME TO THE FOOD BANK IN THE AREA BUT ALSO PICKED ME UP AND DROVE ME THERE WEEKLY! HOW INCREDIBLE WAS THAT? YHVH SUPPLIED ALL MY NEEDS, FOR WHICH I TRULY GIVE HIM ALL GLORY AND ALL PRAISE! ALSO, A FEW FRIENDS HELPED ME WITH FOOD AND FURNITURE AT THE BEGINNING, TO GET SETTLED SO I COULD LIVE COMFORTABLY. YHWH PROVIDED A WAY WHERE THERE SEEMED TO BE NO WAY!
SHORTLY AFTER THAT, WITH SOME HELP FROM MY NEIGHBOR FILLING OUT PAPERS FOR MY SENIOR’S PENSION ETC. I WAS ABLE TO GET OFF WELFARE! SHE HELPED ME GET ALL THE GOVERNMENT BENEFITS THAT WERE DUE ME, THAT I HAD RIGHTS TO HAVE HERE IN CANADA. GOD TRIPLED MY INCOME AND BROUGHT ME TO A BRAND NEW PLACE TO LIVE, IT WAS A BRAND NEW MANSION I RENTED AND SHARED WITH MY NEIGHBOR FRIEND!!! IT WAS TRULY FROM THE PIT TO THE PALACE I WENT!!! IT WAS ONLY YAH WHO HELPED ME BUT I HAD TO TAKE THAT FIRST STEP AND COME OUT, AS HARD AS THAT WAS! I HAD TO LEAVE EGYPT WHERE “PHARAOH” CONTROLLED AND ABUSED ME VERBALLY ALL THE TIME AND GET OUT! I HAD TO MAKE THE FIRST MOVE, YAHWEH DID THE REST! I GIVE HIM ALL THE GLORY FOR WHAT HE DID!!
SO PLEASE DEAR ONE..COME OUT AND BE YE RESTORED, RENEWED AND SET FREE FROM THE PRISON YOU'RE IN.